Dear Friends,
As we begin to get ready for a new school year and the High Holy Days, we often find ourselves thinking about the new people who will enter our schools and our synagogues— new students, new parents, new grandparents and caregivers, new teachers and staff members, new and prospective synagogue members, and many, many guests. Then, our minds quickly jump to the ways we make these new people feel comfortable in our "homes."
Rabbi Rick Jacobs talks about Audacious Hospitality, “Audacious Hospitality isn’t just a temporary act of kindness so people don’t feel excluded. It’s an ongoing invitation to be part of the community—and a way to spiritually transform ourselves in the process. Audacious hospitality is a two-way street where synagogue and stranger need each other, where we not only teach newcomers, but they teach us” (Rabbi Rick Jacobs, March 2014, www. blogs.rj.org/blog/2014/03/17/what-is-audacious-hospitality/).
In early childhood education, we understand the importance of rituals and routines in everyday life. They give children a sense of security and control over their environment. Routines allow children to emotionally prepare for changes that are to come. We might consider the concept of Audacious Hospitality in the same way—not as a temporary or isolated act, but instead as a ritual and routine to give guests a sense of security over their new environment.
Our days can become busy and overwhelming, and we may forget to take time to notice and perform acts of love and kindness. Traditionally, Jews begin each day with Modeh Ani, the prayer that thanks God for returning the soul to the body, enabling the individual to live another day. What rituals and routines can you add to help children, families, and educators feel connected and welcomed into your school, congregation and community?
Here are a few wonderful resources:
www.urj.org/audacioushospitality/audacious-hospitality-toolkit
www.pjlibrary.org/beyond-books/pjblog/march-2017/a-book-list-about-welcoming-guests
L’Shalom,
Lori
